Thoughts, Observations, Impressions

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  • Question of the Day 7.17.24🤔

    List 10 things you know to be absolutely certain.

    This post applies to adults.   I think adults are responsible for children.   Children are entitled to more space and grace for growth.   Children are entitled to attention and love from the adults in their lives.  Childhood needs to be respected. ❤️

    1.  I have faith that God and the Bible are real and tell the truth.  I’m most certain about that.  I’m not certain about much else.  The rest is opinion.

    2.  Every adult is in charge of their own life and you will reap what you sow.  There is no getting around that.

    3.  Life isn’t fair.  Sometimes that works against you but sometimes it works in your favor.

    4.  Life doesn’t offer promises or guarantees.

    5.  No one is owed anything and that’s a two way street.

    6.  I’m not special and you’re not either and neither is anyone else.

    7.  Appreciate those that display kindness because they didn’t have to do that.

    8.  Cherish healthy, loving relationships with friends and family.  Those connections mean a lot.  They chose to love you and they didn’t have to.

    9.  Discernment is extremely important.   Discernment comes from reading the Bible and prayer.  If it’s not coming from the Bible it’s just suspicion and paranoia that will cause you to have a hard heart.

    10.  Do not harm or disturb.  

  • Question of the Day 7.17.24🤨🗣

    What could you let go of, for the sake of harmony?

    A cantankerous relationship without good communication and questionable intentions.

  • Question of the Day 7.16.24🎵🎤

    What is your favorite genre of music?

    It’s a broad answer but pop is my favorite genre.

  • Question of the Day 7.15.24🛗

    What bothers you and why?

    I don’t like it when someone is waiting to get on an elevator and they don’t stand back to let passengers already on the elevator get off.  That has always grinded my gears.  About a month ago I was frazzled and in a rush to get to an appointment and I did that to someone else.  🤦🏿‍♀️😬

  • Question of the Day 7.14.24 🪞✝️💵

    What do you think gets better with age?

    Self image and confidence improved with age.  I’ve learned a lot about myself over time and most of it is positive.  The world is competitive.   I think I measure up against others pretty well.

    My relationship with Christ has gotten stronger over time.  Prayer, Bible study, faith and time has revealed a lot to me.  God’s word is real.

    Financial matters improved.  Working every day and being conscious of your finances pays off and creates stability and prosperity.

  • Delusional Feminist Nonsense 2024

    Celebrity women that make feminist statements are delusional or flat out lying and gas lighting. They present themselves as independent women but they are usually attached to ambitious and or successful men. I think they aren’t being completely honest by acting as if they are independent women.

    I came to know La La Anthony when she was an MTV VJ in the early 00s. La La married basketball star and first round NBA pick in 2010. Carmelo played in the NBA for nineteen seasons and competed in the Olympics four time. He has a net worth of $160M. Regardless of what happened in the Anthony marriage La La benefited professionally and personally from her union with the millionaire ball player. Anyone that believes otherwise is believing feminist nonsense.

    Cher is a legendary pop and film star whose career has spanned five decades. She got her start with her husband Sonny Bono. Sonny was ambitious and had success as a young song writer. In his later life he was the mayor of Palm Springs, California and a congressman. I’m sure Sonny benefited from Cher’s youth and beauty. Their marriage was a symbiotic relationship that created growth for both of them.

    I’m not offended by Cher’s answer to this question. I think it’s a fair answer. However the implications are feminist gas lighting.

    Tennis star Serena Williams appeared at this year’s ESPY Awards. She reacted to the controversial speech Kansas City Chiefs kicker Harrison Butker made during a college commencement speech. Many people found Harrison’s speech to be sexist. I found it to be a little misguided.

    Serena made the statement “We don’t need you”. Serena is successful due to her father’s drive and attention. After becoming a tennis prodigy and star she married Alexis Ohanian. He is the co founder of the social media site Reddit and has a net worth of $70M. Her tennis career was established long before her marriage nonetheless Serena has the love and support of a highly successful man that adores her. I’m sure she enjoys the relationship and the benefits of being married to this man. I don’t think she shared a positive and respectful message to young women or men.

    https://www.usatoday.com/story/sports/2024/07/11/serena-williams-harrison-butker-espys/74376288007/

    https://www.celebritynetworth.com/richest-businessmen/alexis-ohanian-net-worth/

    The Spice Girls were a pop sensation in the late 90s and early 00s. Youthful, feminine sex appeal was a part of their brand that made them wealthy and successful. They had a feminist mantra of “Girl Power”. I don’t recall them explaining what that meant.

    Mel C is the only Spice Girl that never married. She had a seven year relationship with a music producer for seven years. Victoria married one of the wealthiest football (soccer) players in the world. Geri married a Formula 1 team boss. Mel B. has a daughter with actor and comedian Eddie Murphy. Emma’s husband is an R & B singer. Girl Power has it’s limits. There’s nothing wrong with being a successful professional woman. But if feminists are going to speak on such matters they should talk about a woman’s personal life as well.

    https://people.com/real-life-loves-of-the-spice-girls-8620541

    It’s really OK if a man supports a woman and leads her to or adds to profession or personal success. I think that’s what they are supposed to do. Men and women need to appreciate and respect each other more. Acknowledge how marriage benefits both parties and is a blessing. What’s wrong with that? Stop the gaslighting, lies and delusions of grandeur please.

  • Have a great weekend. TGIF 🙂 #prayer #pray #TGIF #tgif

    https://youtube.com/shorts/Q6z_re8Gc8E?si=m_srEAbG928GBLOm

  • Question of the Day 7.12.24 🌹💝🥂😘

    What’s your definition of romantic?

    Considerate, caring, comforting, affirming gestures between people that are attracted to each other.

  • Question of the Day 7.7.24

    Describe your most memorable vacation.

    Funny you should ask.  My cousin (mother of the girl on the left) sent me this photo over the weekend.  This is me and my cousin at my grand dad’s house in Arkansas around 1982.  Look how mischievous we look. 

    This was a family road trip from Detroit, Michigan to Forrest City, Arkansas.  I remember a lot about this summer vacation that happened over forty years ago.  It was fun and a pleasant childhood memory.

  • Do Everything as if You’re Working for the Lord