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Rain Clouds, 9.12.26 🌧🍦🍟
A weekend addition to my series on strip malls and interesting skys.

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Yaaay! It’s not super hot today. 🤗🌤
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Question of the Day 9.13.26 🧳📸✌🏿
What’s the longest trip you’ve ever taken?
View all responsesTen or eleven days. That’s the max. Vacation starts to get on my nerves a bit after about four days. Ten or eleven days is pushing things but I don’t want to travel far and stay for a weekend even though that would be nice. After a week or so I’m ready to return to where I live or start looking for a job, apartment or filling out immigration paperwork wherever I am. Vacation is being in limbo and it’s fun for a short time. Food and laundry is the issue.
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Question of the Day 9.12.26 🤔📱➖➕🟰
How does your mindset affect your financial success?
View all responsesMindset is irrelevant. It’s a matter of math. You don’t even have to be good at math. A calculator will give you the answers you need. Do the math!
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My Photo of The Twin Towers

I took this photo of the Twin Towers in 1998 or 1999 with a 110 camera. Images of the Twin Towers are sad and haunting but also nostalgic. When I look at this photo I think about what I was like at the time the photo was taken and what the world was like. Video and photos of the World Trade Center are like time stamps. They are like before and after for people that are old enough to remember it. Some films edited out images of the Twin Towers.
I was twenty three or twenty four when I took this photo. I was optimistic, energetic and ready to prove myself and take on the world. Twenty five years have passed since the World Trade Center attack on 9/11/01. I’ve learned and experienced a lot since then. So has the world. My condolences to those that suffered a loss on 9/11/01.
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Movie Review: United 93

“United 93” is about the United flight that was hijacked by terrorists and crashed into a field in Pennsylvania on September 11, 2001. It was a good film and I recommend it if you haven’t seen it. We have hindsight and we’re in a different era but it’s interesting to watch the movie and ask yourself how you think you would have reacted in that situation.
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Question of the Day 9.11.26 🍻🍸🪩🕺😉
What’s the best advice you’d give to someone younger than you?
View all responsesIf you enjoy night life leave bars and dance clubs before 1:00AM. The later it gets the drunker people get. People slam drinks at last call. Don’t wait until the lights turn on. Mayhem starts in the streets and parking lots after the disco closes.
This is good advice for all ages. The link is a story about a woman in her late fifties that got shot and killed in the parking lot of a restaurant in suburban Detroit. The shooting happened around 11:30 pm. That was probably around closing time.
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Question of the Day 9.10.26
Have you ever regretted reading a book — which one and why?
View all responsesI wouldn’t say I regret reading a book. I will say that I’ve been disappointed in a few. In my experience books and authors that are heavily promoted in the media usually don’t live up to the hype. I don’t believe talk show hosts actually read the books that they claim are good reads.
I’ll never get over the “Fifty Shades of Gray” hype. That book isn’t even about what people said it’s about. The story is completely different than the one described on daytime talk shows. First off, it’s not even sexy. Christian was weird. “Fifty Shades of Gray” was more like a true crime novel.
If Christian was bad looking and poor the girl would have gotten upset and it would have set off a different chain of events. The girl whose name I don’t remember wasn’t a good character either.
She was presented as virtuous but she really didn’t have any sense. Christian was in complete control of the situation the entire time. Both parties had romantic options that they were compatible to but they rejected or kept at arms length. Then they got married in a sequel. It was ridiculous.
The only thing I like about “Fifty Shades of Gray” is the soundtrack.
I read the book “The Host” by “Twilight” author Stephenie Meyer. “The Host” was released shortly after the success of the “Twilight” series. Because of Stephenie Meyer’s popularity I thought “The Host” would be a good book but I was wrong.
“The Host” was long, boring and unoriginal. If I remember correctly the book was told from the point of view of humans that were stealthily being taken over by extra terrestrial or super natural (can’t remember which) life forms. They were possessed by the life form but people that knew they human couldn’t tell the difference.
The book came out in 2008 so it’s been a long time plus I didn’t like the book so my memory is foggy but I don’t think the host said anything while their mind was getting erased. They were conscious of the invasion and but they submitted to the alien or ghost or whatever. There was no resistance or even panic. It was boring. If you don’t care you’re being erased by aliens then I don’t either. Who is to say it wasn’t an improvement? This book also became a movie. I didn’t watch. I remember the at the time mayor of Kansas City’s son was in it. I still didn’t watch.
Nicholas Sparks has made millions but he isn’t a good author. He writes from a simple formula and repeats the story. Nicholas Sparks changes the locations, ages and economic status of his characters but every book is the same.
Nicholas Sparks owes a lot of his success to Ryan Gosling and Rachael McAdams. Two charismatic, young attractive actors put him over the top. “The Notebook” is an example of a movie being better than the book even though I didn’t like “The Notebook” as much as everyone else did. It’s OK. I never actually read “The Notebook” but like I said if you’ve read one Nicholas Sparks book you’ve read all of them. I don’t blame Nicholas Sparks because he’s rich as heck. He’s lazy but he found a money making formula.

The “Divergent” series was very popular. “Divergent” is another example of a charismatic actor taking a mediocre book to another level. “Divergent” wasn’t original or very exciting. The books were easy to get through and the story carried the reader along. The books were an alright way to pass time. “Divergent” was just part of a trend. The series is four novels about a young heroine, her family and love interest set in future, post societal collapse Chicago.
The problem with dystopian novels is that everything that happens in those books has already happened in history or is currently happening to someone, somewhere in the world but we don’t care about those people and their reality. Dystopian writers takes the stories of oppressed people and make the characters people that we are conditioned to empathize with and respect.
The popularity of the dystopian genre stems from White people liking to see themselves as the protagonist in a fight against an oppressive authority.
I think the dystopian novel bandwagon created a strange, delusional head space in American culture. The “Left Behind” series about The Tribulation period in the Bible is also a contributor. I think this delusion is the only reason many Americans are interested in Christianity. They think they’re the savior instead of needing a savior.
The film “Divergent” came out in 2014 among a wave of dystopian novels and films. In 2016 the US elected an elderly real estate heir to be president under the belief that he was the savior of America.
“Divergent” was an entertaining enough film. Had it not been a part of a popular trend I don’t think it would have been memorable to me. Shilaine Woodley did a good job in the lead role. My favorite thing about “Divergent” is the author Veronica Roth’s backstory. She wrote it on Spring Break or something like that when she was in college. Writers have the best success stories.

The only popular book that I really enjoyed was “Hunger Games”. I loved the books, movies and prequel. Suzanne Collins did a heck of a job writing the “Hunger Games” novels. Her work lived up to the attention they got.

I am weary of books that receive a lot of media attention and are featured on programs like “Good Morning America” or “ET”. I’m convinced the hosts are repeating press releases and don’t actually read the book. It’s a set up for disappointment.
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Bad Week for Feminism 🫶💸

Feminist activist Gloria Steinem died at ninety two years old on September 2, 2026. My condolences to her friends, family and admirers. Gloria Steinem was a social and political activist and someone that had been in the public eye my entire life. I’m ambivalent to Gloria Steinem and the feminist movement overall. I have criticisms of the feminist movement and I think it caused some problems. Feminism has caused some extremes and delusions that don’t benefit women.
This post is about two current examples of feminist failure. The timing of Gloria Steinem’s death is ironic. Modern era feminists are showing their behinds, being extremely weird and being made into fools publicly.
Feminist activists are outside rallying in support of a woman named Lindsay Clancy who murdered her three children while her husband went out to run a few errands. He went to CVS and to get a carry out for the family’s dinner. Mrs. Clancy strangled her three young children to death and then jumped out of a window. She is now paralyzed and wheelchair bound. Mrs. Clancy has become a feminist heroine. I don’t know why.
They say Mrs. Clancey’s actions were due to post partum psychosis but still, of all the women and women’s issues they can choose to support why is this what they made matching t shirts about? I would think that their feminist advocacy and support could go to under privileged women or women in countries that have no rights. They could raise money for women’s scholarships, small businesses or for women needing to reestablish their lives after leaving a marriage. They can praise women that accomplish things and serve others. Instead they color coordinate outfits for a woman that went crazy and killed her children. I’m unsure what they want and what the long term goal is.

A man scammed women out of millions of dollars. He contacted them on social media apps like Instagram. This was a romance scam. Ironically, in these post feminist times the dream of having a well to do significant other is what made these women the victim of a scam. They thought because he was a relatively young (35), relatively healthy (not overweight) Black man that he had potential to play pro sports.
I watch sports so I would have known that man was scamming immediately. His head shot didn’t even look right. He posted videos of himself running pretend practice drills. I’m a woman in my fifties who has never participated in organized sports but I’m pretty sure that I could have done those exercises as well if not better than he did.
The fake baller had an eighteen year old partner in crime who posed as a financial advisor. This is why women use to not be allowed to have bank accounts and credit cards. Feminists are fond of saying dismantle the patriarchy but a lot of them obviously need some patriarchy. Where are their dads, grand dads, uncles, nephews, brothers, a pastor, male friends, acquaintances, male co workers or men in the family group chat? Most men would have put lid on this immediately.


FYI to non sports fans. Pro sport franchises list their rosters on line. Everyone on the team is on the website. The 49ers are a big deal and their website is easy to find. I think these women were enthralled by the idea of being a rich pro athlete’s girl friend that they became overly anxious to buy in to the fantasy. This is ironic for our post feminism era.
A man playing on the 49ers doesn’t need your help. No potential suitor needs a woman’s help regardless of his occupation. Men’s occupations pay more. Men in female dominated work forces still make more because they are likely to be in a leadership role.
Financial matters use to come out in the wash because there was an expectation that men provide a financial foundation. But somehow women have got it in their heads that they should help men financially even if he plays for the 49ers. The balance is gone and it favors men whether they are scamming or not.
Feminism is supposed to be empowering for women but it made women vulnerable in many ways. Romance scams would have been inconceivable years ago because women didn’t even go Dutch on dates.
I bet Gloria Steinem observed some of this nonsense, rolled over and gave up. I kind of feel bad for her. She tried to help.
FYI-Please don’t misunderstand me. I voted for Hillary Clinton and Kamala Harris for president. I voted for women as governor for Missouri twice. (They all lost.)
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Question of the Day 9.7.26 🇺🇸👩🏿 📖
What’s a book you started and quit reading?

I had to start “Becoming” twice. I started it once and stopped reading because it was a little boring. Michelle lived up to the phrase “No drama Obama”. I’m glad I gave “Becoming” a second chance and pushed through it.
Michelle Obama is a national treasure, dutiful wife, mother and patriot. Michelle Obama is a true lady who served as FLOTUS with integrity, feminine grace and strength. “Becoming” is not a messy political novel at all. I was hoping for some mess or complaints about political rivals and naysayers but Mrs. Obama chose to go high. I enjoyed the book and learned new things despite the book being a little boring at first. I found the book to be worthwhile.
